September 2025 Spread Reading

Spread Intention: Strengthening connection through presence.

Individuation* Focus: Deepen connection to self and others through grounding practices.

*Individuation is the process of integrating the conscious and unconscious aspects of the self to achieve wholeness and authenticity.

Tarot Deck: First Aid for Broken Hearts Tarot by Nonara

How this spread supports Individuation: Grounding is the foundation of power. This spread helps you recognize where disconnection weakens your leadership and offers practices to deepen your rooted presence, strengthening your impact.

The Card Draw

What is Currently Ungrounding me?

How can I Strengthen My Connection to Others?

What Wisdom Does My Body Have For Me?

Card 1: What is Currently Ungrounding me?

The Star (reversed)
Quote: Keep the faith; the world is full of miracles

Tarotypal Insight:
The Star reversed suggests that the very energy of renewal and hope feels distant. What is ungrounding you now may be an over-reliance on external validation or the search for inspiration “out there.” Disconnection arises when the wellspring of faith within you feels dimmed, or when the desire for clarity eclipses trust in the process.

Individuation Guidance:
Ungrounding comes from forgetting that your light is not earned — it is inherent. Individuation here means releasing the tendency to project your healing and guidance outside of yourself. Instead, return to your own body as a sanctuary. Even if the stars seem hidden, your inner compass still shines.

Leadership Application:
When hope feels fragile, leaders may unintentionally overcompensate through overpromising or over-functioning. Reversed Star reminds you to ground leadership in authenticity, not aspiration. Reassure your team through presence, not perfection. Your steadiness is more valuable than your certainty.

Card 2: What Practice Will help Me Root Deeper Into Myself?

The High Priestess (reversed)
Quote:
Seek the truth through your insight; the answers lie within

Tarotypal Insight:
Reversed, the High Priestess reveals blocked intuition — an inner wisdom that feels muted or disregarded. The grounding practice needed here is to re-open the channel of trust with your inner knowing. Busyness, doubt, or distraction may have drowned out your quiet truth.

Individuation Guidance:
Your path forward is not about finding more data, but about listening more deeply. Reconnection requires clearing space for stillness: journaling, meditation, breath, ritual. Individuation is supported when you honor subtle whispers of your body and spirit, even when logic pushes them aside.

Leadership Application:
A grounded leader doesn’t just manage by analysis; they sense timing, energy, and morale. When your intuition is dismissed, you risk leading by surface-level information. Rooting deeper into yourself means allowing your inner authority to guide decisions. This restores balance between analysis and instinct.

Card 3: How can I Strengthen My Connection to Others?

The Lovers
Quote:
Unity awaits you at the crossroads; come together

Tarotypal Insight:
The Lovers calls for unity and conscious connection. Strengthening relationships is less about obligation and more about choice — choosing to be fully present, to align values, and to prioritize authenticity. At the heart of connection lies intimacy: being seen and seeing others as they are.

Individuation Guidance:
Individuation does not isolate you; it prepares you for authentic partnership. The Lovers reminds you that deepening your connection to others comes through vulnerability, honesty, and the courage to honor differences while seeking harmony. Connection flourishes when you choose resonance over performance.

Leadership Application:
For leaders, this card is a call to relational leadership. Prioritize dialogue over directive, collaboration over control. Strengthening connection with others doesn’t dilute authority — it amplifies trust. At this crossroads, leadership impact grows not from standing apart, but from standing with.

Card 4: What Wisdom Does My Body Have For Me?

Five of Pentacles
Quote:
The door is always open; end the isolation to see what is beyond

Tarotypal Insight:
The Five of Pentacles highlights feelings of scarcity or isolation. The body’s wisdom here is blunt: your system is signaling depletion, perhaps through fatigue, tension, or disconnection. This card reminds you the door is always open — healing begins when you acknowledge need and seek support.

Individuation Guidance:
Individuation asks you to end the cycle of “going it alone.” Your body is teaching you that grounding comes through receptivity, nourishment, and resourcing. Honor your limits and tend to your needs with compassion. The path to wholeness includes leaning on others when you feel shut out.

Leadership Application:
In leadership, ignoring the wisdom of the body leads to burnout. The Five of Pentacles warns against overextending yourself to prove worth. Instead, model wholeness by tending to your wellbeing. When you acknowledge vulnerability, you normalize rest and recovery for those you lead.

Card 5: How Does grounding Support My Leadership?

Queen of Cups
Quote:
Intuitive and creative leadership supports those you love

Tarotypal Insight:
The Queen of Cups represents intuitive, compassionate, and emotionally attuned leadership. Grounding allows your empathy and creativity to flow without being overwhelmed. Like the swan at her side, she moves gracefully between inner depth and outer expression.

Individuation Guidance:
Individuation here is about embodying emotional wisdom without losing your center. Grounding keeps you tethered so that your compassion doesn’t dissolve into over-responsibility. It allows you to hold space for others while remaining rooted in your own truth.

Leadership Application:
Grounding elevates your leadership by anchoring your emotional intelligence. Instead of reacting from stress or absorbing others’ turbulence, you become a steady presence. Grounded empathy inspires trust, creativity, and cohesion — hallmarks of leaders who are both human and visionary.

Key Themes for Individuation

  • Ungrounding through External Seeking: Reversed Star shows how searching for inspiration outside yourself leads to disconnection.

  • Reclaiming Inner Authority: The High Priestess reversed calls you back to your intuitive center as a grounding practice.

  • Connection as Choice: The Lovers highlights authentic presence and intentional unity as the bridge to others.

  • Embodied Wisdom in Vulnerability: The Five of Pentacles reveals the body’s truth — grounding requires resourcing and support, not isolation.

  • Grounded Emotional Leadership: The Queen of Cups affirms that presence and compassion flow best when rooted in self-connection.

Leadership Individuation Experiment

Take this reading to a deeper level, by engaging in the Individuation experiment. This experiment is intended to help you integrate the concepts and insights from this reading into your life and leadership, helping you move from interesting ideas to new capability and expanded capacity.

Experiment Name: Strengthening Connection Through Presence

Deepen your connection to self and others through grounding practices

Hypothesis: Strengthening our sense of grounding deepens our ability to connect meaningfully with ourselves and others.

Experiment Steps:

  1. Ground Yourself Daily: Engage in a grounding practice—walk barefoot, meditate, breathe deeply.

  2. Check Your Presence: Notice how you show up in conversations. Are you grounded or distracted?

  3. Deepen One Connection: Reach out to someone with a genuine check-in, listening fully.

  4. Reflect on the Impact: Does grounding shift your sense of connection?

Observation Guide:

  • What grounding practices did you engage in, and how did they affect your presence?

  • Did you notice a shift in your ability to connect with others?

  • How did being more grounded impact how you moved through daily life?

  • What insights emerged about the connection between stability and meaningful relationships?

What Practice Will help Me Root Deeper Into Myself?

How Does grounding Support My Leadership?