October 2025 Spread Reading

Spread Intention: Releasing attachments to open the flow of possibility.

Individuation* Focus: Surrender control and make space for deeper alignment.

*Individuation is the process of integrating the conscious and unconscious aspects of the self to achieve wholeness and authenticity.

Tarot Deck: Black Tarot: An Ancestral Awakening Deck and Guidebook by Nyasha Williams

How this spread supports Individuation: Attachments to old identities, beliefs, or outcomes create stagnation. This spread helps you surrender control, making space for true flow and deeper alignment.

The Card Draw

What attachment is holding me back?

Why am I holding onto it?

What Will open up when I release this attachment?

Card 1: What attachment is holding me back?

Eight of Wands

Tarotypal Insight:
The Eight of Wands brings speed, acceleration, and momentum. As an attachment, it suggests you may be clinging to urgency, to the belief that forward movement must always be fast, visible, and linear. The need for progress at all costs—measured in milestones, productivity, or external validation—can actually hold you back. Instead of flow, this attachment creates pressure to keep pace with a rhythm that may not be yours.

Individuation Guidance:
The soul’s pace is not always the same as the world’s. Individuation requires honoring your own timing. Releasing attachment to urgency allows you to discern between what is divinely in motion and what is simply restless striving. Letting go here means trusting that what is meant for you does not need to be rushed.

Leadership Application:
For leaders, the attachment to speed often shows up as overcommitting, overcommunicating, or driving teams without pause. The Eight of Wands reminds you: not every initiative must move at lightning pace. Releasing this attachment creates space for clarity, alignment, and sustainable execution. Leadership impact grows when momentum serves vision, not anxiety.

Card 2: Why am I holding onto it?

Ace of Coins

Tarotypal Insight:
At the root of this attachment lies the promise of new opportunity. The Ace of Coins represents potential—material gain, stability, or new beginnings in the tangible world. You may hold onto urgency because you equate it with securing opportunities before they slip away. The belief here: “If I don’t act fast, I’ll miss my chance.”

Individuation Guidance:
The shadow of possibility is scarcity. Individuation asks you to shift from “I must grab this before it disappears” to “I am resourced enough to trust that what is mine will arrive in its time.” By loosening your grip, you actually make room for deeper, more aligned opportunities to root.

Leadership Application:
In leadership, the Ace of Coins energy often drives attachment to growth metrics, financial outcomes, or reputation gains. This can spark over-investment in short-term wins. The card reminds you: lasting leadership comes not from seizing every coin in sight, but from cultivating fertile ground. Trust that opportunities multiply when nurtured, not chased.

Card 3: What Will open up when I release this attachment?

Daughter of Baskets

Tarotypal Insight:
Releasing the need for speed and grasping opens the tender space of curiosity, emotional openness, and imaginative flow. The Daughter of Baskets invites play, wonder, and vulnerability. Instead of reacting from scarcity or urgency, you enter a posture of discovery—where life can surprise you.

Individuation Guidance:
The childlike quality of the Page asks you to reconnect with innocence and intuition. Individuation unfolds when you allow yourself to be touched by possibility without controlling its form. By letting go, you soften into relational presence—open to synchronicity, to love, to creativity that emerges unforced.

Leadership Application:
In leadership, this release opens up fresh connection with your team and environment. You can listen more deeply, invite unconventional ideas, and foster psychological safety. By stepping out of urgency, you create a culture where curiosity and compassion flourish—and innovation follows naturally.

Card 4: What can I trust as I surrender?

The Hanged Man (reversed)

Tarotypal Insight:
In reversal, The Hanged Man highlights resistance to letting go. You may fear surrender will mean stagnation, loss of agency, or wasted time. Yet the card affirms: you can trust the wisdom in pause, even when it feels uncomfortable. Reversal suggests the lesson is not about indefinite suspension, but about the shift in perspective that comes only when you stop forcing forward motion.

Individuation Guidance:
Individuation requires periodic inversion—seeing life from an angle that logic alone cannot provide. The reversed Hanged Man shows you can trust the transformation that comes from non-doing. Trust that by loosening your grip, your consciousness itself expands. The “delay” is not delay at all—it is recalibration at the level of the soul.

Leadership Application:
For leaders, surrendering can feel like failure or loss of authority. Yet The Hanged Man reversed reminds you: by releasing attachment to constant progress, you model resilience and adaptability. Teams trust leaders who know when to act and when to yield. Trust the pause—it signals wisdom, not weakness.


Key Themes for Individuation

  • The Illusion of Urgency: The Eight of Wands reveals how attachment to speed can mask insecurity. Individuation calls for pacing aligned with truth, not pressure.

  • Scarcity vs. Trust: The Ace of Coins uncovers how fear of missing out drives overattachment. True individuation affirms abundance and right timing.

  • Curiosity as Flow: The Daughter of Baskets shows what opens when you release urgency—playfulness, intuition, and relational openness.

  • The Wisdom of Pause: The Hanged Man reversed teaches that surrender is not loss but a portal to perspective, allowing deeper flow to emerge.

Leadership Individuation Experiment

Take this reading to a deeper level, by engaging in the Individuation experiment. This experiment is intended to help you integrate the concepts and insights from this reading into your life and leadership, helping you move from interesting ideas to new capability and expanded capacity.

Experiment Name: Releasing Attachments

Explore the freedom that comes from letting go of control and expectations.

Hypothesis: Releasing attachments—whether to identities, outcomes, or beliefs—creates more freedom, ease, and natural momentum

Experiment Steps:

  1. Identify an Attachment: Notice where you’re gripping tightly—an expectation, a belief, or an identity.

  2. Offer it Up: Write it down and symbolically release it (burn it, tear it, bury it).

  3. Observe What Fills the Space: What new possibilities emerge in its absence?

  4. Lean Into Flow: For one week, practice making decisions from intuition rather than control.

Observation Guide:

  • What attachment did you choose to release, and why?

  • How did the act of letting go (symbolically or practically) feel?

  • Did you experience any resistance, and if so, how did you move through it?

  • What did you notice in your life as you practiced flow over control?

What can I trust as I surrender?